I love weddings. I am one of "those" people, that whether I am attending a wedding in person, or watching one in a movie or on television, I get teary eyed. I try to control it, but it happens every single time. I am just a very emotional person, and weddings set me off.
When my children were younger, they were asked to be in their cousin's wedding. It was so overwhelming for me to see my beautiful kids, all dressed up and participating in such a wonderful moment. That day, I cried more than I normally would over a wedding, because my heart was right there in these two little people who were clueless as to why mommy was a total mess.
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| My children in their cousin's wedding |
Your big day is your one shot to have a wedding that is all
about you and your spouse. There are no do-overs, so you want to make this day
as memorable as possible. Most ceremonies follow a standard or traditional
template. However, there are a few ways you can customize your day so your
personalities and preferences are highlighted. However, there are a few ways
you can customize your day from designing your own wedding ring with Shane Co loose diamonds to a unique festive entrance down
the aisle.
1. Write Your Own Vows
One of the best ways to add a personal touch to your wedding
ceremony is to write your own vows. This does not mean you have to memorize
them (though that is preferable). If you are nervous, you can always have the
maid of honor or best man hold your vows so you can read them.
If you need tips for writing your vows, there are several
online tools and templates that can get you started. However, the best way to
do it is to speak from your heart and tell your betrothed how much they mean to
you. It never hurts to include a favorite memory or small inside joke. You will
have an audience, but your vows are largely just for the two of you. After the
wedding, you can re-write and frame your vows in your home as a reminder of the
promises you made.
2. Creative Spin on Traditions
In most ceremonies, a couple exchanges wedding rings, vows
and kisses. Consider adding a ring warming ceremony. In this tradition, place
your rings in a small bag or bowl and passed around guests, who can offer a
prayer or blessing for the couple. The rings are then brought back to the
couple to be exchanged.
Not comfortable with your diamonds floating around a crowd? You
might also consider a unity ceremony. Traditionally, this included lighting a
unity candle. However, depending on your wedding, you may have other takes on
this part. For a beach wedding, for example, you may consider a sand ceremony
in which you each pour different colored sand into a decorative vase. Doing a
nautical wedding? Think about literally tying the knot together, each taking an
end of rope and pulling it tight.
3. Play That Funky Music
For centuries, music has played an integral role in wedding
ceremonies. From hymns to steel drums, there are so many options for couples to
consider when picking their music. While most people reserve sentimental songs
for the wedding reception, you can also utilize them in the wedding ceremony.
This is a great option for a couple struggling to decide among several songs
for their first dance. The songs that aren’t used can be played as guests are
being seated at the ceremony.
4. Make It a Party
One of the most fun ways to personalize your wedding is to
involve the wedding party. Some people choose to have their party make a
festive entrance down the aisle at the start of the ceremony. Or, the wedding
party may dress to theme. Instead of holding flowers, bridesmaids can hold
lanterns or handbags. If you want to do something unique with your wedding
party but are stumped, consider asking them for their input. After all, you
trust them to be in your ceremony; they may have some great ideas of their own
to help make your wedding memorable.
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